Sannion ([info]sannion) wrote,
@ 2007-02-27 15:47:00
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A herm of Gratitude

“I sing of Hermes, the Slayer of Argos, lord of Kyllene and Arcadia rich in flocks, luck-bringing messenger of the deathless gods, giver of grace, guide, and granter of happy boons!”

Such is how the eighteenth Homeric Hymn praises Hermes, and as many can attest from personal experience it is a very apt description. Of all the gods, Hermes is perhaps the closest to mankind. He is constantly depicted as putting on a human guise and walking among us, working his strange magic and causing the unexpected to occur. He is a god of the crossroads, where two points meet and the road diverges into unfamiliar territory. Chance, coincidence, synchronicity, luck, an accident so full of meaning it ceases to be arbitrary. We have many ways to describe the Hermetic presence in our lives, and it can be felt in an equally abundant variety of manifestations. For Hermes has taken upon himself many offices: his realms include everything having to do with money and finances, with commerce and exchange, with thievery and clever ideas, with communication and logic (both expressed as clear thinking and cunning deceit), with travel and exploration, with social bonds and their transgression, and ultimately everything that has to do with the human world and what lies beyond it.

Hermes is fond of surprising us. When we’re agonizing over which bill will have to go unpaid this month, he drops a windfall into our laps. When we’re feeling that our life has lost its moorings and we’re drifting aimlessly along he’ll cause our eyes to flash upon a billboard with a message that seems to have been written just for us. Sometimes Hermes’ change can be drastic and frightening: a long-time relationship suddenly crumbles or the job that we were sure we were going to get falls through. At such times it is easy to get discouraged and even to become angry at our lot in life – but if we don’t lose heart and continue pressing on, often we will find that this happened for a reason: another person, better able to meet our needs steps into the fore; that job we thought looked so promising is actually a dead-end that would have sapped our spirit and left us feeling trapped and bitter. Hermes is an amazing god, and the more you look for his presence in your life, the more it will be found.

But sometimes that can prove difficult. It is easy to get caught up in things and lose our focus, especially when our lives are so hectic and fast-paced and we have to juggle a dozen things at any given moment. While Hermes’ presence can be announced with colorful fireworks and life-altering events, more often than not he acts in subtle, easily missed ways behind the scenes. Just as anyone who works so hard to make our lives better and run smoother (when he’s not throwing a monkey-wrench into things for his own amusement that is) appreciates when we take note of their benefactions, Hermes likes it when we honor him in a spirit of gratitude.

This can take a number of different forms. Obviously there is the lavish sacrifice and votive gifts which form such an important part of Hellenic polytheist religious practice. Additionally there are small devotional activities that we can perform for him, such as writing poetry or making crafts to please him, or showing kindness to random strangers on the street or donating time and money to worthy charities in his honor. And there is always the solid stand-by of prayers and even spontaneous expressions of gratitude such as, “Wow, thanks for ____” or even “Holy shit, Hermes, that rocked!” whenever we note his activity. All of these are fine examples, and I would most heartily commend their adoption. But lately I’ve been thinking of another way that I could express my gratitude to the god, one that is more permanent and concrete, and I would like to share that with you today. (Appropriately enough for a devotional rite dedicated to Hermes, I stole the idea for this from Philip, the Doctor of the Ecclesia Antinoi, who performed a similar action during the Antinous ritual at Pantheacon this year. I would just like to take a moment to publicly thank him for this before we proceed.)

In ancient times people used to set up herms by the wayside to mark important boundaries. These were piles of stones, sometimes with a pillar erected in the middle, which had been built up over the years, each traveler setting a rock on the pile as he passed by. Scholars speculate that Hermes acquired his name from this practice, being originally the guardian of such numinous places.

Reflecting on this practice, I figured it might be a wonderful way to show our continual gratitude to the god. The practice, as I envision it, consists of this:

Every time that you feel thankful to Hermes for something, pick up a rock or pebble. Using a permanent marker – a magic marker would indeed be appropriate, considering that Hermes is the patron of the magical arts – inscribe it with some type of dedication. Depending on the size of your stone this could be a date, or a single word to remind you of the event, or even a small paragraph describing what happened. Afterwards place the stone in a bowl which you can keep in a special place such as his shrine, and every time that you pass by you will have a tangible reminder of that event. Once your bowl is full, take the pile of stones outside – in your yard, or to a park, or an abandoned city lot, or some wooded location, or at a crossroads or the roadside of a highway – and set them up in a mound as a herm of gratitude. Thus you will have erected a monument to the god and consecrated territory for him, and left a physical representation of your gratitude. And who knows, depending on where you set it up somebody at a later date may stumble upon it, perhaps leading them to seek out more information about this god, and who knows, they may even end up cultivating a relationship with him just because of your example. It will also be a continual act of devotion that can help ground you and remind you of his presence and his many blessings in your life.


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[info]erl_queen
2007-02-27 11:55 pm UTC (link)
Thanks for reminding me about this! I want to start this soon.

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[info]sannion
2007-02-28 07:47 pm UTC (link)
You and me both!

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[info]the_hag
2007-02-28 12:12 am UTC (link)
oh dear...reading the top half of this post, I realize now that I owe a not so small offering and quite a few word of thanks to Hermes...darn it all, sometimes I'm so dense.

Thanks for this, it served as the kick that I needed right now. :-)

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[info]sannion
2007-02-28 07:45 pm UTC (link)
He's such a constant presence that it's so easy to overlook him.

Glad my mad ramblings could help in some small way :D

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[info]arianadawnhawk
2007-02-28 01:33 am UTC (link)
What an awesome idea! Kinda appropriate - yesterday I did a little offering for Hermes to thank Him for a safe trip.

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[info]sannion
2007-02-28 07:45 pm UTC (link)
That's actually why I wrote this. During our trip to San Jose we ran into some trouble. I prayed to him, he fixed it, I vowed 4 pieces in gratitude. This was the first to be finished.

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[info]alfrecht
2007-02-28 01:45 am UTC (link)
Ah, fantastic! You had my undivided attention with "A Herm for Hermes," of course, but your words are inspiring and informative--as usual!--and I thank you for the nod in suggesting this practice.

While I'm thankful for Hermes' influences in my life (and Antinous, of course!), I'm still waiting for the "big event" to really pay him proper honor--and by that, I mean the job which will allow me to have some personal security and independence, and which will open up "all ways" before me, so that I can continue to do Hermes-inspired work (which I have always taken my role as a scholar, a teacher, and an interpreter of texts/ideas/things to be). But in the meantime, thanks are of course due to him for making so many things for PantheaCon at least a major success.

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[info]sannion
2007-02-28 07:47 pm UTC (link)
You could always nag him. I do that frequently. "If you gave me a million dollars, you would have the best temple in the world!"

Uhm ... on second thought that doesn't seem to work so well.

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[info]radiantbaby
2007-02-28 02:36 am UTC (link)
Thanks for sharing this wonderful post and idea! I am going to have to do this myself. :)

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[info]sannion
2007-02-28 07:47 pm UTC (link)
Sweet, keep us updated if you do :D

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[info]hekatatia
2007-02-28 08:46 am UTC (link)
Thanks for the idea! I think this will work well for me.

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[info]sannion
2007-02-28 07:48 pm UTC (link)
It's so simple, and yet I could see it becoming something very powerful

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Hermes offering
(Anonymous)
2007-02-28 02:31 pm UTC (link)
I have left small figurines of soldiers that won games in train stations somewhere obscure and not obvious, where they could see but not be seen.

I have noticed on many occasions returning that they were gone shortly afterwards.

Hmmm...
H____, H_____, H_____


yours,
no-one really

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Re: Hermes offering
[info]sannion
2007-02-28 07:49 pm UTC (link)
Niiiice!

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[info]neowiccan
2007-03-01 04:26 pm UTC (link)
you are on a creative and devotional roll these days!
and it's ever so nice for me.
i've got my own herm started (and stalled, need to jump-start it) before my own 'gates', but this will be a marvellous way both to add to it and to take it beyond my own gates, so to speak.
thanks, darlin!
khairete
suz

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[info]sannion
2007-03-01 07:34 pm UTC (link)
Yeah, it's kind of spooky how fast and frequent these essays are coming, but I'm not going to question it! Glad it could be of some help :D

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[info]tarotbyhic
2007-03-01 06:55 pm UTC (link)
This is a very cool idea. I like the way you come up with contemporary and practical ways of worship, ritual and practice.

I was reading something last night and it made me think of something I wanted to ask...how much importance do you think having knowledge of the customs, practices, rituals, etc. of the past plays in how one constructs their own practice, rituals, etc. today ? Do you think that trying to follow as closely as possible the way it used to be done (based on as much information as is possible to obtain) is more important than creating a modern, personal and perhaps completely divergent way of worship, ritual, practice, etc. ?

I see the historical information as something of a guideline upon which one can begin to construct his/her own customs, practices and traditions. But I read/hear others who look quite disparagingly on "doing one's own thing" versus "doing it as it was and should be done."

I'm pretty sure I know where you come from on this. 8> But I'm wondering if you have any thoughts on that as well as a sense of what you've observed and discussed with others about this in general ?

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[info]sannion
2007-03-01 07:32 pm UTC (link)
That sounds like a wonderful idea for an article ;)

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[info]ladytairngire
2007-03-08 09:18 pm UTC (link)
And here I've been thinking lately, "Dude {Hermes], if you'd just give me some ideas on how to physically show You gratitude..."

and happenstance leads me to this post. Thanks! (and thanks!)

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[info]sannion
2007-03-08 09:19 pm UTC (link)
Happenstance is just the footprints of the gods left in this world. ;)

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